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Continue reading →: I’ve Gotta Get Out of This PlaceMy husband and I have been mulling over the possibility of leaving the country since November 2024 after the election of Donald Trump. We both worked for the Federal government as librarians during Trump’s first Presidency, and it honestly was not too terrible. Some short term hiring freezes meant staff…
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Continue reading →: The TowerIn the tarot deck, often depicted as being struck by lightning or aflame, the Tower is representative of a major disruption. I do not know what that change is at the time, but I feel something is shifting. I am dreaming grand dreams and having big fears about what is…
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Continue reading →: New Year, New Me: Death to Diet Culture in 2025Like countless Americans, I have been making the typical New Year’s Resolution for decades: this is the year I lose weight. Sometimes I do lose weight, but it inevitably always comes back. My cycle of constant dieting and weight rebound is a sign of my disordered eating and difficult relationship…
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Continue reading →: Letting Go of Home Ownership… for NowHomeownership and the American Dream—a classic pairing, right? At one time, they might have been synonymous, but for many young Americans today, the reality of entering the housing market feels out of reach. My husband and I have accepted that owning a home isn’t in the cards for us anytime…
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Continue reading →: Struggling to Find HomeFor most of my adult life, I have had the privilege of living in a home owned by my family. I am in a new state, and for the first time since I was twenty-four years old, my family is renting. I know lots of people rent, and there is…
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Continue reading →: Extending My Table: The Beauty of HospitalityAs we move into the Thanksgiving and Christmas season, I am deeply reflecting on the need for more open hospitality in American life. We have become insulated in our nuclear household, closed off to others. In a world that often feels fast-paced, divided, and self-centered, there’s something powerfully countercultural about…
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Continue reading →: Let It Be or How to Apply Stoicism in Highly Stressful SituationsI have been struggling to control my anxiety and stress in this trying season of my life. I have found myself as the sole earner in our household, helper my husband, and mothering a nearly two-year old. All while trying to learn a new job and build a support system…
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Continue reading →: Watch Out for CurveballsLife has thrown us some major curveballs over the course of the last several months. Our move to the beautiful West Virginia fell through. The result of which was pulling out of a home purchase just weeks before closing and letting my new employer know I would not be arriving…
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Continue reading →: Leaving the Heartland for “Almost Heaven”Our time in Oklahoma is coming to an end. In exchange for the wide open plains and prairies of the Heartland, we are headed to the heart of Appalachia, West Virginia. Sometime I feel like the modern Laura Ingalls-Wilder, bouncing around, trying to find a place to settle. This will…
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Continue reading →: Planning My Southwest Oklahoma Backyard GardenThe temperatures are climbing across the country, and that means everyone wants to get outside! I’m being careful not to start planting too soon for fear that a frost may still come to bite my plant babies, but I have big plans to transform our current dustbowl. Southwest Oklahoma has…





